clear and concise communication
The basics
Aim: say enough to be understood and not too much to waste everyone's time.
Techniques:
- Use the right language for your audience. Technical talk and abbreviations are there to save time if, and only if, they are understood by the other party too.
- Check what has been understood - read body language (frowns or nods are key signs), ask questions - this gives the other party an opportunity to speak if they need or want to.
- Say what you mean - be careful to do it with integrity and respect.
- Be professional:
- try not to abbreviate, curse, or be too familiar;
- keep focussed, and be friendly.
- Speak to the person's face, make eye contact.
- Speak clearly and at a suitable volume for your audience.
- If you need to finish a point uninterrupted, politely say so e.g. "if I could continue...", "yes, that's right, that's related to ...", "just to finish this point..."
Watch out for
| Euphemisms |
Metaphors |
Technical Talk |
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Lacking in tact: Doing the teenager*
- being blunt
- inappropriate emphasis
- using obscure teen talk, this is club membership just like technical talk.
Over-doing it: Doing the maiden aunt*
- Never actually saying what is required: trailing off into silence, using hints and whispers
- Wanting / waiting for the other person to guess or assume what is meant
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Over-doing it: Doing the sales rep*
- Giving too much detail with the wrong emphasis
- Overcomplicating the facts
- Apparently "hiding" the facts
- Can be patronising if the metaphor is an oversimplification
- Inappropriate assumptions and knowledge of another's interests or background
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Lacking in technical terms - Doing the bore*
- Uses imprecise terms or over describes what is meant
- Speaks way too long
- Patronising if explanations are provided
Over-doing technical talk: Doing the nerd*
- Exclusive language: are they talking to themselves?!
- Ambiguous language, especially between allied but different professions.
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*Please note, these are gross stereotypes based on my own biases and presumptions: not perfect, always human.